tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post5029852661165289919..comments2023-10-29T15:35:16.886+01:00Comments on Tel's Talk: Personal -- a question.Terri Nixonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01128748951796407341noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post-7134675172744688452012-09-05T08:53:51.256+01:002012-09-05T08:53:51.256+01:00Just want to thank you all for your kind words and...Just want to thank you all for your kind words and support - I do feel a bit easier in my mind, just knowing it doesn't make me black-hearted to feel the way I do. <br /><br />xxTerri Nixonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01128748951796407341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post-30453018894921458362012-09-04T12:41:30.195+01:002012-09-04T12:41:30.195+01:00This person long ago gave up any right to be part ...This person long ago gave up any right to be part of your life. There is no right/wrong reaction here and he deserves no consideration, its about you - just try not to let him affect you any more. K Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post-92031486848355908762012-09-03T16:33:10.636+01:002012-09-03T16:33:10.636+01:00I can totally understand how you feel. My mother a...I can totally understand how you feel. My mother abused me in different ways, far less severe than anything you described, and her supposed death met me with total apathy. Apathy, but not forgivness. And I wouldn't expect you to feel differently. {{{{{HUGS}}}}Liznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post-82898191153788522282012-09-03T12:41:29.231+01:002012-09-03T12:41:29.231+01:00Not at all! I know all those motivational message...Not at all! I know all those motivational messages that fly around the internet say we should just let all those feelings go and forgive but you know what, some things are just beyond forgiveness especially when the person who perpetrated the act has (I assume) never offered you an apology or addressed why they behaved the way they did. Don't give him a second thought. <br /><br />Sally Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post-80994931031786883722012-09-03T12:39:50.171+01:002012-09-03T12:39:50.171+01:00You are not wrong at all Terri, but the fact that ...You are not wrong at all Terri, but the fact that you are wondering if you are, demonstrates that you have compassion and empathy unlike him, which makes you a winnerJane Cnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post-47605715280873924002012-09-03T10:28:12.001+01:002012-09-03T10:28:12.001+01:00Enjoy the freedom from him Terri. What goes around...Enjoy the freedom from him Terri. What goes around comes around and his karma has just caught up with him.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08668379961387847394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post-40437785074343436942012-09-03T10:05:25.616+01:002012-09-03T10:05:25.616+01:00Your feelings are justifiable! Your feelings are justifiable! Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11344902399208901228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29648329.post-75687566527668095272012-09-03T09:35:21.824+01:002012-09-03T09:35:21.824+01:00A short answer to your final question. No, it'...A short answer to your final question. No, it's not at all wrong.<br /><br />Scruff.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com